My job in "real life."

I have recently started a new career as an aide and job coach to persons with disabilities. I am currently employed by Todd Steven & Associates (TSA) who provides community assistance and job coaching to persons with physical, emotional, cognitive, and developmental disabilities. These are people ranging from mild autism who need a little guidance and supervision to those with severe CP or MS who need assistance with feeding and changing. TSA is a cutting edge service provider that helps disabled people realize the joys of life many of us take for granted... holding a job and being productive members of society, going to the shopping mall, going to a fast food restaurant for lunch, having an enjoyable swim at the local YMCA or community swimming pool, going for a walk in the park, going to the movie theater. These are all things that until recent years were completely inaccessible to many disabled people. Even with recent changes to overcoming the physical barriers that buildings and transportation were to these people, many of them still need someone to be there with them. Families are not always able to provide all of it and institutions and group homes are certainly limited to how much social activity and job support they can provide to their residents.

Providers such as TSA have trained and equipped people like me and my colleagues to provide life enhancing service to these disabled people who would either be wasting away in an institution or getting by with the limited resources that dedicated group homes could provide them.

Through our assistance, these people have been able to become more independent and productive members of society, taking a huge load off of tax payers, families, and home staff onto themselves with just a little assistance.

It is hard work, emotionally challenging and not always "fun" but it is very rewarding at the end of the day when you get home knowing that you have enhanced a few lives today and taken a bit of the load off of society by allowing someone the opportunity to carry themselves as much as their limits allow.

There is nothing like caring about someone that other people try to avoid because they are "odd" or too much to deal with. In a very short time, I have developed a deep respect for and devotion to these people.

The only thing that seems unfair in this line of work is that we are traditionally under paid for what we do in comparison to other fields of work. At first, it was an income for me but within a few weeks, I began to love the work and serving the people I worked with. It's no longer about the money but I also have to face reality... I have bills, I have college tuition loans to pay off, my old car is getting older by the day. I just have to have faith that I am doing what is right and in time my financial situation will improve.